The checklist

 Last week, my heart was beating so fast, i became short tempered. i get annoyed easily. for once i thought i was gonna die, because all i do was sleep in my free time. i guess thats how my mind and body respond to stress.

Like any other day, weekdays is a bitch to me. Just in case u haven't heard me saying this, i'll say it again. I HATE MY JOB. thankyou.

Then i commented on a friend facebook status, 'guten morgen, lovers' which mean good morning lovers. i happened to tell her about my bitchy weekdays and she said, ' well, we all do, but demi sesuap nasi, suffer je la kan.' well, she's right anyway. put it like this, i need this salary to save for my wedding. to make it a beautiful one even if its not expensive :) well everybody dream wedding will cost millions. Unless you are as lucky as Marion Caunter lah kan.

anyway, i found this check list and decided to have it on my blog as well. i hope it will get me organized.

1. nikah, sanding & bertandang date
- confirmed

2. kursus kahwin & legal docs
- kursus completed 23/1
- hiv test done - 3 months before 11/11
- borang - 3 months before 11/11
3. venue
- nikah : Ipoh house (mimi)
- reception: booked. balance 80%

- bertandang : booked

4. catering & canopy
- KL: to have food tasting and to reconfirm usage of canopy.
- Ipoh: booked

5. pelamin & decor
- IPOH : DONE. to pay deposit
-KL: Pending

6. photographer
- nikah & reception : DONE
- bertandang : DONE
- pre/post-wedding : DONE

7. videographer
- nikah & sanding : pending
- bertandang : pending

8. wedding outfit
- nikah : pending
- sanding : pending
- bertandang : pending

9. makeup
- nikah : pending 
- sanding : DONE - to pay deposit to block dates
- bertandang : pending

10. favors
- nikah : pending
- sanding : pending
- bertandang : pending

11. bunga pahar
-- bertandang : pending

12. hantaran
- for him : pending
- for her : pending

13. rings
- his : pending
- hers : pending

14. invitation card
-pending

15. cake
- KL : pending

16. tok kadi
- pending

17. handbouquet
- nikah: DONE
- sanding : pending 
- bertandang : DONE

18. guest list
- pending

19. ceremony, entertainment & kompang
-KL : pending
- bertandang : pending
- cd of favourite songs : tentative list dah ada. to rearrange the sequence
- kompang & selawat : TBC
- slideshow for bertandang : concept dah ada. not started, arief will help =)

20. pengapit
- sanding : 

- bertandang :
- bff dresses for bertandang :

21. dresses for family
- KL : pending
- Ipoh : pending

22. wedding heels
- nikah & sanding & bertandang : pending

23. event itinerary
- pending- bertandang rehearsal : (to check with hall admin & timing)
- bertandang coordinator :

24. wedding props

- pending

25. spa treatment
- pending

26. honeymoon plan
- MATTA FAIR here i come :)

OKAAYYY i have like HELL lots of work to get done by myself but hey life goes on. i gonna live my life with the man of choice so be happy, Mimi :)

cheers! 

The Ghost of the Ex.

My ex? NOPE! Im done with all my exes. They are definitely HISTORY now. and im glad they are history because i love my present :)

so yesterday i tweeted, "Dear Allah, tonight I don't want to dream abt the past. Let me dream of the present and future. Thank you. Faithfully, Mimi."

the ghost of your ex is haunting me baby. god knows for what reason. maybe i felt insecure. maybe because all the things she said. and i dont like the past. you have thought me to let go, and so i did. but subconsciously, i didnt let go.


please please Allah. Im on my bended knees, please let me let this go or ill never feel happpiness again.


Love,
Mimi

I have died and gone to Heaven :)

relationship and friendship. both is vital to life. u need either one to survive this horrible life.

i wanna thank my baby for all the things he have done. Thank you for just being there and sometimes you u dont even say a word when im sad, because u understand. you know what i want. you witness every tears, every laugh, every smile that i let out. and im happy that i can share all that with a person as incredible as you. you were there, eventhough when i have my ridiculous mood swings. you stayed and you didnt bail on me. among everybody i have met. you stayed the longest in terms of patience. THANK YOU, BABY ARIEF :)

so, i have a beautiful relationship. what more can i ask for? friendship of course. well i have friends, but my friends are not the one that would take a bullet for me. its more like, hey we're friends WITH benefit. to me, why be friends, when you wanna be jealous of me, you were never happy of what i have. thats not friend. i rather not have you at all. seriously. im looking for a sincere friendship, if there is ever a sec that you feel like you hate me, go away. dont be my friend. i dont wanna get hurt anymore.

but for now, im content with the amount of friends i have. i dont have a whole bus. but i have a few 'take a bullet for you' friend :)

I'm happy with my life. I have Arief, i have my girlfriends. Im complete :)

When to shop for Hantaran?

I was on YM with my beloved YM partner, Ainee Joe today. I asked her when is she coming to KL and she said when there is sales. and she asked me when is that. i confidently said MARCH! haha MALU!

no its not march, peeps!

Malaysian Mega Sale Carnival 2011 will be held on 15th June 2011 to 31st August 2011. So, darlings, save up! Spend your heart out ;)

I'm gonna save for my hantarans :)

list of item in my wishlist for hantarans for Arief ( i have a wishlist for him, can u believe that? HAHA)

1. Mossimo Dutti shirts, pants
2. Perfume( eau de parfum ok! no toilet!)
3. DSLR camera
4. PS 3

Ok thats all i can think of since Mr Fiance is bugging my life to drag me to the gym. Doesnt he knows that i get so much weaker everything i step foot in the gym? grrr!

bye babies! mwahh!

What's Next ?

HELLO PEEPOS :)

Okay engagement, done. whats next? Wedding of course ;) OMG so ex-fucking-cited! weeee :)))

Few weeks before my engagements, we were having problems with my reception venue. but the its all settled now :)

WHERE? .... 


TAADDAAA


BUKIT KIARA EQUESTARIAN AND COUNTRY RESORT!

hahaha siap promote kan? anyway im having a garden wedding by the poolside. so it should look like this.

so now, the add on budget is the freaking canopy. kenapalah malaysia ni punya weather unpredictable! which is RM450 per canopy and of course la my canopy nak yang arabian pastu ada LED light. haha yes very over the top like baby would always say. but hey im only getting married to you once, Arief Farhan Rahim! i deserve the right to be picky!

My doorgifts is done! Literally. Dah dapat idea. maybe i can ask Ainee's fiance to help me with some drawings :D

next, my venue for akad nikah is done. YEAY! i kahwin dekat IPOH! my hometown! woohoo! Arief said my dad can close a mosque for us. HAHA. gila hebat kan boyfriend i? opps tunang lah! i keep forgetting that he's my lawfully binded fiance. hehe!

Lagi? i nak pakai burung dekat kepala. okay~ not exactly a bird. but bird lah. Like SJP wore in Sex and the City. Dont have the idea of it? Here it is :)

isnt this breathtaking?

OH YES! WEDDING DECORATOR! Spoke to Arjuna Cipta. Grrr harga mahal gila. Seriously sometimes when i look at his quotation, i rasa macam ridiculous. anyway, trying to talk him through my budget. i just love their artwork. i want them! i want them!

what else? Boutonnieres, tablescape, bouquet. soo many things to do.  

FUTURE MOTHER IN LAW CAN YOU HELP ME, PLEASE :(

ish tak malu mintak tolong orang! haha

See ya soon lovers.

toodles!

So long 'Single' !

HELLO DARLINGS! IM ENGAGED TO ARIEF FARHAN RAHIM!

yes im excited. very! its like a achieve some diploma in life. HAHA!

friends came and make my day. and i love them. family? lets not go there. Baby said, we have better things ahead now. Which is true. why sob about things and people that will pull you down no matter what. Life's good with fiance :D

so, i didnt get the pictures from my photographer yet but i managed to get few pictures of me from my makeup artist and my dear friends.

let me tell you about my make up artist, she's so awesome and nice and the make up is beautiful. her name is KAK SADAR. her price is not bad. RM 250 make up and hair do. so if you need to hire her please visit her website here.

   

i wanted my hair to be like this.

but it became this instead. i think its pretty though :)

 OMG I STILL CANT BELIEVE IM ENGAGED!

You and me, eternally!

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I'll keep you in my prayers.

Engagement is tomorrow. Freaking out. Nervous. Excited. Name it. have it all in me.

Today, i wanna thank those people that helped me through my tough days. that listens to my stories and feel my pain. and cry along with me. you guys are the best. You know who you are. we may have not hangout together but well, we love each other. that i know. and im sure u know that too ;)

i love you people! nuff said!

off to get things done for the hall. Take care my lovers.

Thank you once again dear friends :)

God is always there :)

Not many people know how stressed i was for the past week. Doing all the preparation for my E-day. From getting the food, to the setting up, to the dresses, to the doorgifts, to the hantarans. Life can be really challenging when you gotta deal with it all alone. And when family back out on you at the very last minute.

sometimes we all wanna cry and scream and yell at the same time. Well, i did that. Still, my worries are still there. Will it work out. Will it be just like how i wanted it to be? And Right to the very end, i dont fucking have a photographer. -_-

Like seriously, i DONT have a photographer for my engagement. And everybody has been saying, its once in the lifetime event, you gotta have it the way u want it. and nobody is there to take my pictures of the happy day. So, i sat down and think. Nobody is gonna pity me. i got to pity myself. So i should do all it takes to make my E-day a memorable one. Yes, i'm mad with their selfish-ness but who am i to ask them to help? Im only a sister. who bothers? Mak will bother but she's not here. I gotta bother my own shit then. Sad? yeah, but whatever. i'll get it done :)

so, me being all tech savvy. i googled for my last minute photographer that was like 3 days away from my E-day. Guess what i typed? LOL you wont believed me. i typed ' photographer murah RM 500 bertunang'.

I wasnt being a cheap stake but i do have some financial issues and the family are a bit meticulous. Its all up to me then to fork out the money. Well, they are paying for the food and pelamin and all. but other petty little stuff are left to me to go figure. Anyways, back to my googling, as i hit the Enter button, BOOM! i found it. you know what i got? I got this for RM 600! believe it or not? heee :)

RM600
- 1 DAY EVENT
- 1 UNIT STORY ALBUM (SEMPENA PROMOSI)
- COVER SAMPAI HABIS MAJLIS
- DVD SOFTCOPY
- UNLIMITED PHOTOSHOOT
- 2 JURUGAMBAR + 1 EXTRA PHOTOGRAPHER ( she said she'll add one more for me! yeay! lucky me!)
- OUTDOOR KAWASAN SEKITAR SELEPAS MAJLIS
(SEMPENA PROMOSI)

i know. i know this is a super good deal right? Hell yeah, it is. They take really good pictures and the lady, Kak Leeza is soo friendly. Felt comfortable the moment i met her. Go check it out Grasshopper Photography.

Whats pending now?

1. My heels

2. Baby's baju melayu

3. Door gifts 

Thats all i guess for now. 

Seriously, I went and see Kak Leeza and when i saw her artwork. I was thankful to God, he saved my ass this time. It was beautiful and up to my budget. and her art work is up to my taste. LOVE LOVE her! 

Thank you God. Thank you for being there where everyone else bail on me. Alhamdullilah :)

God is always there for everyone.Miracle do happened.

Weekends of CNY @ Ipoh

My CNY celebration was spent in IPOH. City of the laidback :) Headed back to ipoh on the morning of 3rd February.

I was imagining that my holidays will be me curling in my blanket for the 4days of hols. but instead I was out till 6.30 am. EVERYDAY! kid you not!


Here, a few pictures to share :)

Met up with 2 of highschool mates. Both are gonna be doctors soon :) its 5 years ago that last met.

and we decided to climb Bukit Kledang on 2nd day of CNY.

accompanying the boys for snooker at 6 in the morning

Coffee bean for dinner with yaya love!

met up with Bobo :)

yaya and wa

Jep, Baby and Syed @ Barbeza

Us :)

Us again!

Baby and Syed

Yaya and Syed

Ever so adorable yaya and bobo

Enjoyed my holiday with her :)

Yaya and Aiman.

Bobo and Me.

Its back to work y'all. No more waking up at lunch. Suck! I want my bed in Ipoh. its so comfortable that i dont suffer my backache when im back there. sad.

To end my post, here's a picture of my Valentine. Love him to bits.

HE'S GONNA BE MY FIANCE SOON :))